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Author Topic: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
calmmounta-
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Post Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: October 25, 2012, 22:37
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Okay, so the week is almost over as I post this. Point taken. But I've seen this kinda feature work well for provoking interesting discussions at other forums so I thought that perhaps it would be worth a try over here.

Answer whenever you like and hey, if you have ideas for other questions - feel free to share them.

When was the last time that you laughed enough to make your eyes water?

Courage & Peace

reaptat
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: October 26, 2012, 01:47
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Last night when my buddy and I listened to a message on a game. Too funny.

Bull
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: October 29, 2012, 06:34
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I never laugh that hard in my life. I only have tears when something real bad is going on and then sometimes I still try to hold it in. Depending who is around me at the time.

halochild
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: October 29, 2012, 17:08
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Awwe, Bull. I love you, Big Bro. And I miss you too.

Lil Sis

calmmounta-
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Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: October 31, 2012, 20:49
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Reap - Coolness. May I ask what game it was? And what the message was? I'm trying to imagine.

Bull - There's a first time for everything so here's hoping that someday you get to have tears of happiness. It's not a bad feeling.

As for me... It's been awhile since I laughed enough to cry. Guess I'm overdue for some comedy. Thank goodness for DVD of the classics.

Courage & Peace

reaptat
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: November 1, 2012, 08:58
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The game is Borderlands and I will have to get back to you on what was said. My memory is not that great anymore.

halochild
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: November 2, 2012, 19:13
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Well, I remember lmao so hard that I thought I was going to fall out of my chair one time when an old friend of mine gave me this. I had been bitching about people leaving their shopping carts laying around in parking lots (AGAIN), ya know, like I always do, and she gave me this, and I laughed til I cried.

http://www.strayshoppingcart.com/shopping_cart/1_introduction.htm

I think she was one-half of the "disturbing, yet sweet, photo posting duo". Do you remember that?

So . . . do you think it's me (Halochild) now?

P.S. And I KNOW y'all remember the tick I had in my mole! OMG! Remember, the doctor pulled it out and it left a hole, and I said I was "holey moley?" lol

halochild
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: November 14, 2012, 07:49
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Calmmountain, this was my way of trying to tell you that "yes", it really is me. And you're right. We always did get along, and actually used to have fun together. I still had the shopping cart article on my computer from when you gave it to me so long ago because it cracked me up so much and made me smile and laugh.

I've just been going thru a really tough time in my personal life right now. It's very hard for me to trust again after everything that got done to me. But since you are so willing to try, and extend your hand, I will too.

Maybe we can talk? I just don't like "airing my dirty laundry" out in public for "everyone" to read, ya know? lol. I'm just a lil more of a private person, and because not everyone needs to know what gets said between me and you, or me and RVD, or me and anyone else, that was the only reason I asked for a phone call or an email . . . was for privacy purposes. That was the ONLY reason. For BOTH of us. I just wanted to try to repair a friendship that never should have gotten broken in the first place because SOMEONE ELSE decided to be an idiot, ya know? lol!

Halochild

calmmounta-
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Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: November 15, 2012, 23:14
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Sincerely appreciate it, Halo and can perhaps relate. Things have been tough all over. Sorry for kinda lashing out in that other thread - I was just fed up and frustrated. Your behavior on these forums had given me cause for concern and had lead me to wonder if accounts here were secure.

Apologies also for the delay of reply. Not a day goes by that I don't think about this place. However I am not currently able (or entirely willing, honestly) to be online every single day and the days just plain seem to fly by. Also...between all that had been said, some of which I now regret... Needed to take a step back.

Agreed. Private matters always need to be handled with care but you know, it's also been my experience that secrecy is rarely a solution. Better communication was needed and these forums did eventually help to achieve that.

*laughs* Unfortunately, I have to doubt that the world has ever had a shortage of idiots. We can only hope that such an event will someday occur. But the mere existance of a published field guide to stray shopping carts... *sighs* You just have to laugh, sometimes. It beats the alternatives.

Courage & Peace

halochild
Post Re: Question of the week: October 21st, 2012
on: November 17, 2012, 01:29
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It's all okay, Calmmountain. And I don't blame you for being fed up and frustrated. I felt that way too. I just felt like I was here every single day showing my love and support for RVD, bragging about him on my FB page, and basically everywhere I went, and no one would believe me when I said I was not the problem here. Yes, sometimes I'm dumb and silly, and I like to have fun, and I love to joke around with people. But I don't think there is one single person here who can honestly say they think that I am the type of person who just sets out to hurt people. I'm actually a really kind, caring and giving person. I think that's why I keep getting hurt all the time, is because I just feel this need in me to reach out and help people, and they keep biting me in the back.

It's taken me a really long time to learn (the hard way) that I just can't go around helping everybody. I have to protect myself too. And it's just such a sad, sad time that in this world we live in, the people who will turn on you the fastest and try their best to hurt you in every single way possible are the very people that you are trying to help. It hurts my feelings, because I would like to be able to offer someone a place to sleep for the night, or ask them to come in for a hot meal, but I can't because they want to rob me. I'm really struggling right now with all the damage that has been done to me over the last three years, that I didn't even know was being done until a couple of weeks ago when I found out my boyfriend was a phony, and he, his brother, and his mother, had come up with this plan that he would make me fall in love with him, marry him, put his name on the deed to my house, my bank account, etc., and then once he had everything, I would conveniently "dissappear". It's hard enough to find out that someone never loved you at all, but it just adds to the sting of things when you find out they actually hated you, and their entire relationship with you was nothing but getting revenge on you for three years ago when you tried to help them, and they somehow feel you "wronged them" when you set down boundaries on what and how much help you could give. They feel like I hurt them because I just didn't give ENOUGH! So they were going to take it for themselves, and damn me in the process.

Anyway, these people were bound and determined to ruin every single aspect of my life. Not just financially, but personally too. This "boyfriend" knew that I really enjoyed my friendship with RVD and that I posted pictures for him somtimes, and that I love being here at this forum. So I have been able to find out, with some help from a private investigator/computer nerd, that he and his family are the ones who hacked my email, wrote nasty messages, and unfortunately are still reading all of this here at this website right now because his brother and his mother are members here. They wanted to ruin my relationship with RVD because they knew it made me happy, and destroying it would hurt me a lot. I feel like they succeeded, and I never did anything except love RVD, as my friend. I truly, truly, only wanted to help him with his website and keep the forums running, and help bring new fans here to see how wonderful he is. Because he was always so kind and sweet to me, and I feel so bad that because someone wanted to hurt ME, they came here to do it, and hurt him and others in the process. No one here was ever meant to be the target to be hurt, except me.

Sorry I went on and on and vented like that, but maybe I just needed to. But I do need to let everyone know that there are two members here whose only purpose is not to be RVD's fans, but to get close to me and destroy any kind of friendship/relationship I have with him or anyone else here. I know who these two "members" are, and am very close to being able to proove it. As soon as I can proove it, I will expose who they are and I intend on pressing full charges to the limits of the law against them. The boyfriend has already been arrested and is in jail (thank God), so I can sleep a little easier at night. I feel like I just layed a TON of stuff on everyone here, but I guess it needed to be explained, and I feel a little better for getting it out. So thanks for listening, for all who did.

And on a lighter note, because y'all know I always try to find the humor in "anything", I'm posting a few pictures for y'all. I know you, Calmmountain, will get a kick out of these. I took these with my phone and went in and showed them to the manager at Walmart one day when I has having one of my, well, "not so happy days". (haha!) To make a long story short, we exchanged some words, said some things, and I won't tell you exactly what I said to him, but it had something to do with the horse he rode in on. (haha!) (I was quite a mad little wasp that day, teehee.)

I'll talk to y'all soon,
Love, Halochild

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